Lets Get This Money Together Baby!

Hey ladies and gentlemen, lets get this money together. If its $20, $200 or $2000 its all gotta be dealt with, right??? So with that being said I budget. I plan ahead. I think ahead. I set goals, large and small. And i accomplish them. I set dates with my daughter. I use apps for budgeting, i save, i spend and hey honey I LIVE LIFE.

Well you know what they say good things come to those who wait. Hold up no! Thats wrong good things dont come to those who wait baby GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO HUSTLE! If you didnt know well now you know so act like you know.

I work, i enjoy working, i like working. And a wise woman once told me you can sleep when you die. So that doesnt mean that you have to clock in from 9-5 but if thats you then thats you love it and own it. I dont mind clocking in and out. Once again that is a blessing and a huge LUXURY IN MY LIFE. That i am able body to work get out of the house impact somebody elses interact with others and make money while im doin it.

Hey some people are self employed. Some people have that side hustle. Some work two jobs and some work three. That to me is a luxury all within itself because the ball is in your court.

So money gives you freedom and freedom is a beautiful thing. It allows your mind to go other places it wouldnt normally go. And we really need to train our mind to do that on a regular basis because that is how you dream, that is how you plan, that is how you set goals.

So I save. And saving can be hard for a lot of people but really just a small savings can really make a difference in your life, and allow you to live life luxuriously.  So there was a point in time that i would save $50 out of every paycheck. At times i would save $100 every paycheck and sometimes i saved none. There are  times i call the bank more than once a day just to hear that automated voice speak music to my ears. And there were times ive called the bank to hear the automated service motivate me to keep going.

Planning and budgeting truly helps though. Time and schedules dont always allow me to get away on a week vacation. But i can always go out of town for the weekend or even just the day. Some think if you cant go for more than four days whats the point in going but hey, it gives you a break and it can be  spontaneous and fun. On a friday we might ride out of town go shopping dinner swim at hotel. Next day shop sight see try a new restaurant. It really can be just a few hours away it gives you a break its fun and its perfect for the little luxuries in life.

Last year we went to florida a week. We set a budget, we planned ahead and we had a good time. We did alot of beach bathing. We had alot of snacks cocktails and water. We did some site seeing and souvenir shopping.  The budget was $500 for each person. Three adults went and my daughter. We stayed in Destin. We took turns driving. And had a good time.

So if you can really just slow down get the money together pick up a side hustle set some goals and knoch em down lifes luxuries will fall in your lap!


Yes, Im A Mom

Well if you didnt know ladies and gentlemen yes i am a mother. I have one child. I was a teen mother. And although I have made many mistakes if I do say so myself Im pretty damn good.

So a little bit about my daughter. She is 11yr old and tall for her age. She is a dancer and is not scared to show. So shy is not a charcteristic that neither one of us hold. My daughter is a busy body likes to be on the go a lot and yes i must say she wears me out. I think its harder for me to keep up with her now then when she was a baby.

She is truly a blessing she has really showed me how to kick life into high gear. She has brought so much to my attention without any words at all. Sometimes its like hey this is life slow down smell the roses.  Other days we are like man there isnt enough hours in the day.

So how we try to incorporate luxury in our life is we set dates, time, and schedules.

A tradition we have is breakfast at a restaurant Saturday mornings. Now we do miss a Saturday here and there but for the most part we get it done. It is a over looked time that we didnt always utilize and you know i just thought one day i could spend this extra time with her. So we made it a luxury. We try new restaurants all the time. We also go back to old faithfulls. Sometimes we have a drink and a muffin some Saturday’s its steak and eggs.  Its a memory that me and my baby will cherish for years to come.

Memories are a luxury all in themselves they cant be stolen or sold you can hold them near and dear to your heart. They are your stories your life and you own them.

Get To Know Me

Hey hey ladies and gentlemen welcome to my world and fell free to welcome me to yours. A little bit about me i am a single mother, and very proud. I have an 11yr old daughter. And i love living life.

So with the fact that i am a single mother i find that there are a lot of little things that allow me to live a luxurious life. Such as getting up early to have an extra cup of coffee to buying an expensive bag. Expressing myself with fashion makeup and my hair even give me the feeling of a luxurious life. I also like to read and relax. Just the opportunity to be able to have the time to read is in my life a huge luxury. Relaxing can be a luxury from going to the nail salon to pedicures at home and the extra five min in my day dedicated to personal time with just my daughter

I love to treat myself and treat others as well. I am always going the extra mile to include other people in my lifes luxuries. Somedays is cocktails after work and somedays its dinner at home.

Simplicity really goes a long way in my book when it comes to living a luxurious life and loving it. I budget, schedule, wake up early, run late forget, help, donate, laugh and cry. I love to eat and out and i love to cook. I love to get pampered but also can do it all myself.

All in all that is just a little bit about me who i am, what i like and how i allow life to go in a real luxurious way. I hope you enjoy all that is come and get to know me as well as i will enjoy getting to know you all.